Home dialysis: a lifeline
Last year at Christmas time, I wrote about my experiences of sudden kidney and heart failure earlier last year and living on dialysis. While I was grateful to have survived this experience, my life changed completely. I felt exhausted nearly all of the time and was restricted in what I could drink and eat and where I could go.
At the beginning of this year I was pessimistic about returning to my old life any time soon. But then I was extremely fortunate to be given the opportunity to learn to do haemodialysis at home. I was the first patient at St. George’s Hospital to be offered this. I was daunted at first: the idea of cleaning my blood in my home without supervision was not something I’d ever imagined for my life. But with two weeks of training at the hospital, I learnt how to set up and use the machine, how to connect myself, and how to resolve any alarms and issues.
Now five days a week I set up the machine, fill it with dialysate, flush it with saline water, connect a series of cartridges and tubes, before connecting myself through two tubes. The machine then filters and returns the blood to my body, a process that lasts four hours. Once the machine is finished I disconnect myself, disinfect everything, and I can go about my day. The process can be stressful: keeping everything sterile for infection control is important. But it is becoming more natural now with muscle memory, and becoming less of a challenge and more of a routine.
Managing the dialysis alone can be a hassle, but I now have the flexibility about when I can do it, which has given me back some control over my life. After feeling powerless for so long after last year, I could finally do something to help myself. But the major benefit has been to my energy levels. As I am dialysing five days a week instead of just three, the process is cleaning the toxins out of my blood more often, and I feel less exhausted. It’s still about half as effective as a human kidney and I still feel tired and sleep a lot of the time, but it’s not quite as bad as before.
I can also relax restrictions on my diet and fluid intake. I have to follow a low potassium, low phosphate, low salt diet, but with more frequent dialysis I can have some restricted foods from time to time: I was finally able to have a pizza after more than a year!
As a result of feeling slightly more energetic I have been able to do more, including meeting friends. I have been able to go back to work on a phased return thanks to a very supportive employer in the civil service and team. I would encourage anyone, including those with a long-term health condition, to look at the UK civil service as a career.
Living with organ failure doesn’t come without its obstacles and hiccups: unfortunately I have been back into hospital twice so far this year, once for a surgery and again for a blood transfusion due to anaemia. The hot weather has also been difficult due to my fluid restriction, as I can’t drink very much water. But overall the trend is towards improvement, and I am grateful that I am gradually getting better. Home dialysis has been very beneficial, and my heart has begun to pump a little stronger, although it is still weak. Without a living donor it may take several years before I can have a transplant, but at least I am moving in the right direction.
The lessons I have learnt while going through this roller-coaster ride of kidney failure during a pandemic are:
- To make the most out of present: I used to think of all the things I couldn’t do, what my life was like before this, and what it could be like after a transplant .The reality is that I could be waiting years for a transplant and lose invaluable years of my life that I won’t get back. I am restricted, but I can do some things that my health permits, without putting everything on a list for the future.
- To try not to worry about factors outside of my control: I can’t heal my organs, and I can’t change when a transplant will be available for me. Naturally a serious illness takes its toll on mental health and I have bad days as well as good days. But I find it easier to focus on worries that are in my control e.g. setting up my dialysis, my diet, exercise, and work.
- To ask for help when I need it: it is easy to try and soldier on alone and not want to bother others with your problems. But it is surprising how many people are willing to help when asked, and a strong support system makes a difficult journey a lot more bearable.
- To see the big picture of what I have to be grateful for: when I was at A&E with 2% kidney function in April 2020, I did not know if I would make it out of hospital or not. Over a year later I have been able to recover at least a portion of normality in my life. I am grateful to be alive and to be able to do many things.
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